2021.10.19 03:26 melonboi101_ drawing Gi-hun from squid game(most likely wont finish it)
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2021.10.19 03:26 Practical-Egg794 Dolly mooned me 😳
2021.10.19 03:26 andregunts X-Force on War Offense 🔥
2021.10.19 03:26 PLUSsignenergy Got broken up with because he didn’t have romantic feelings for me.
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2021.10.19 03:26 Honest_Service_3599 My Philodendron Ilsemanii chonks have given me a new baby. How beautiful is her new leaf plant IG: @dachshundsandplants
2021.10.19 03:26 Parki2 TIL about the Noria. A giant water wheel used to provide fresh water to the Roman Aqueducts.
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2021.10.19 03:26 xhza BA in psychology, what should I do next?
26, single mom working full time in healthcare. I need to figure out what to do next to earn more. Any degree I go for would have to be online and flexible as I need to continue working full time. I’ve been considering nursing but if I’m starting a new degree in a new field I’d like it to have the potential to be work from home.
If I wasn’t concerned about job opportunities and earning potential I’d go for a master’s in experimental psychology and get a job in research, but I’m afraid I’d be throwing away more time and money on a degree that doesn’t yield a relevant job or livable salary. I’m willing to start working towards a career in any field that has high earning potential, job availability post graduation, and could feasibly be work from home in the future.
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2021.10.19 03:26 CknNgtTTV I just want a giant lesbian/pan/bi female group of friends 😪 do yall just want to get together and take fall spooky photos?
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2021.10.19 03:26 Dadbodtothemax u/AmelieLou is a goddess
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2021.10.19 03:26 Cheekydingo No Queer Game Night this week. Stay tuned for future details and all the holiday gaming goodness😁
2021.10.19 03:26 awoloshyn Walnut kitchen table I finished up this week. 65”x40”x30”. Top is 1.25” thick and the base is 2.5”x2.5” walnut.
2021.10.19 03:26 yikeycrikeys No tactile signals when using onenote but tactile signals works for whiteboard?
I was just wondering if anyone else with a SLS and slim surface pen 2 running windows 11 is not able to feel any tactile signals when using onenote? I can feel them when using whiteboard and when using the pen to write texts in the search bar. Was wondering if this was a onenote issue or issue with my pen settings or something
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2021.10.19 03:26 badpiktures TWSBI ECO 1.1mm
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2021.10.19 03:26 aCleverNameRightHere First night sober, anxiety cries
If you’ve relapsed before maybe you know the feeling I have right now. I feel like I shouldn’t post because I chose to smoke again, I wasn’t forced to. It think it’s my addiction talking shit, trying to make it harder for me to quit again.
I loved every second of smoking this past month but I also hated it. I was acutely aware of just how forgetful I was almost immediately. For the past 3+ weeks it’s all I can do to finish a single train of thought. And I could feel myself day-by-day becoming dependent on smoking before I ate any food.
Today has been my first day sober in almost a full month. I’m typing this through anxiety tears and a knotted empty not-hungry stomach. Nauseousness, anxiety, night sweats, and depression are my main struggles I usually have when I quit. I’m not looking forward to the next week but I know I’ll feel much better when I’m weed-free.
Thanks for reading ❤️
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2021.10.19 03:26 Competitive-Mousse27 How do I use "EnableGroupWhitelisting" in the ZaupShop Plugin?
While going through Uconomy and ZaupShop I wanted to use ZaupShop's "EnableGroupWhitelisting," but I just dont know how. I was wondering if any other person that sees this knows how to use EnableGroupWhitelisting.
I've been digging around for answers for days but nothing comes up at all so this is basically one of my last resorts. If you know anything about EnableGroupWhitelisting in ZaupShop please let me know so I can get it to work with Uconomy for my server.
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2021.10.19 03:26 ghiblix pH-1 to co-host Season 2 of DIVE Studios' 'Get Real' podcast
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2021.10.19 03:26 chillip135 New listing on AscendEX!
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2021.10.19 03:26 lingley Blockchain based doordash or GrubHub app
I've been doing doordash and GrubHub and running the COIN app at the same time and I can't get this idea or of my head. It sure seems like it wouldn't be impossible to create an app that creates smart contacts for food delivery. The advantages of this is by taking out the middle man all the money for the food would go to the restaurant and all the money for the delivery would go to the delivery drivers. As it is now the restaurants pay like 10 or 15 percent to the platform they are on and they charge the customers like $5 in fees but only giving the driver like $3.
To keep people from cheating everybody would be getting rated and the driver might have to provide collateral when they accept an order so they couldn't just steal the food. And to keep from getting scammed as a driver you'd have to get a pin or password from the customer on delivery so they couldn't claim they never got their order to scam the driver.
What do you guys think?
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2021.10.19 03:26 aploplei the end of my first ppe
it was a huntress ppe, i was doing fine (4k base fame is a lot for me), until i got a cronus, and i needed that for my trix.
can i get some F´s for my first ppe
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2021.10.19 03:26 richbeautifulwomen Rich sugar daddies now use websites to meet sugar babies who can help provide companionship in exchange for material or monetary rewards.
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2021.10.19 03:26 WESTENDBIG4 Dirty redd 2x MNA/MPAT Gang
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2021.10.19 03:26 Clueless1996 I am looking for some reassurance or feedback on how I can change my behavior if necessary.
Be warned, this is long.
I come from a family that values consistent extended family gatherings every month or week depending on the year, that has slowly eroded after the death of a grandparent. My mother was not good for me (physically abusive) beyond her example of sticking to her values and my father always felt too distant growing up but was a good example of someone that doesn't let others change who you are just to be liked. I've been out of my parents house for 4 years and have been with my husband for 5 years, married for 2.5 years.
My husband's family took a liking to me very quickly which took me a couple years to accept (I wasn't used to being accepted so easily). I always felt comfortable enough to be myself around them and they like that I don't pretend to be something I'm not. By the time my husband and I married I was very close with my in-laws to the point they said they considered me a daughter well before we were engaged. They, like my husband, helped me grow into a better person and move through the trauma I had.
Nowadays, I spend a lot of time with my in-laws. I work a couple hours per day at my parent-in-laws house taking care of my grandparent -in-laws, then on the weekends I go over to their place with my husband for a family night. I would say that I'm decently close with my in-laws while still keeping my private relationship with my husband between us. So, the boundaries I set up work. I get along with everyone in the family, even the ones I don't have any interest in developing a deeper relationship with because we value different things. Every gathering is fun and comfortable.
Something has now changed about the dynamic of family gatherings. My brother-in-law has a girlfriend that he has been dating for at least 2 years now (might get married, still up in the air). My mother, father, and sister in law told me (before I met the girlfriend) that they did not like her and how she treated my brother in law. A couple weeks later me and my husband met her and neither of us really saw any problems. She was fun to talk to, even if she did talk a lot, and seemed to care a lot about my brother in law. We spent over 9 hours together with her and I came away from it feeling pretty good about her. My opinion after this convinced my mother in law to give her another chance. I then proceeded to try and become friends with the girlfriend. It didn't work.
The next time we hung out it was just me and the girlfriend and she was different than before. We couldn't hold a conversation anymore, I could only listen to her vent and anytime a conversation would start she would go on another tirade. It was weird. Then she said many passive aggressive things about me, my husband and my brother in law. She even insulted my career goals and made it seem like I was ignorant just because she went to college for the field I was wanting to work in. It was weird and not what I was expecting so I only disputed her insults of my husband and brother in law, not me, because I was still processing. I'm really slow at accepting when someone is being insulting. I like to give people some leeway.
After that day, I put a little emotional distance from her and tried again with the goal of being friends but not close friends. This time I was with my husband and noticed her treatment toward my brother in law was suspect. It looked a lot like how my mom treated me but I wasn't sure since my brother in law didn't seem to be bothered. That day we learned she was vindictive, which is a trait I personally don't want in a friend but can tolerate in others I don't have to interact with much. My husband and I talked and we both determined that my mother, father, and sister in law may not have been jumping the gun when they said she wasn't likable. Of course, it takes both of us a long time to determine whether we like someone or not so we kept meeting her.
The last time we met with my brother in law and his girlfriend outside of family gatherings was a troubling time for me. My husband and her were talking about some political things which they seemingly agreed on. At least they agreed on why certain things would be good to do but completely disagreed on the approach to solving the problems. It became heated and even I joined in to defend my husband's position to help clear up her misunderstanding about it. She didn't seem to be able to understand what either of us were trying to say no matter how we tried to say it in a clear and accurate manner. She kept digging in her heels about things we weren't disagreeing on as if we were and became insulting when we didn't budge on our position. This caused me to actively dislike her. If you are falling into insults because you can't form your argument or understand the other side I will lose respect for you. At that point, I changed the subject, because talking was pointless. They rest of the day went good with her and my brother in law. Neither me nor my husband cared enough about her to let the argument hurt us. However, at this point I did determine that I for sure, did not want to be friends with her and delegated time with her to family events only.
A year goes by and even though the family still doesn't like her, everyone is civil and a new more comfortable dynamic (not quite as smooth as before) forms and I can see accepting the girlfriend as a part of the family if my brother in law chooses to marry her. Then something else happens and I realize the dynamic is actually worse than I thought. Even the grandparents in law and the other brother in law that likes everyone doesn't like her. She has directly insulted everyone in the family at this point. Whenever she is around, you can feel the tension in the air and it's awkward. I usually spend very little time with her and generally brush off most of the outrageous things she says no matter how insulting. Recently, I didn't do that.
Most Current Incident:
I let my guard down and actually participated in a conversation (vent session) she was having with my mother in law. She was complaining about her friend's husband she didn't like and listed behaviors that she does herself which was really ironic. She noticed that neither I nor my mother in law were agreeing with her assumptions or negativity and got heated. She took the ridiculous position that she could know everything about a person because she knew them for 20 years. I tried to say that it's not possible to know everything about anyone even the person you live with, no matter how long you've known them. She got mad and raised her voice at me asserting that she could know and that I was ignorant and could not have an opinion about the guy she was complaining about. I think she took it personally that I disagreed with her positions and proceeded to talk over me. Of course I never asserted an opinion about someone I don't know, I wanted to counteract her position on knowledge, that's all. I guess I wanted to let her see a more compassionate view so she could let go of the anger and work on what to do instead, so she wasn't so filled with hate at the thought of him. It's how I worked through my own trauma. I know sometimes you have to complain and don't want to solve the problem but if it's causing such intense hate I don't think venting works.
I thought we were having a fun philosophical debate on knowledge and its application on relationships/people. I realize now that I should not have assumed that my debate with her would be similar to the debates I have with my husband and in laws, where we try to learn from each other. When she insulted me as well as talked over me I got legitimately angry long enough to actually yell at her. I'm really glad I have a lot of control over myself when I'm angry because I didn't insult her, even though I wanted to. I yelled, "Thinking you can know everything about someone is a bit much." That's what "you're an idiot" turned into, then my mother in law intervened and the argument ended. After that I was done, my anger was gone and I felt zero need to interact with her anymore. We made polite small talk for a couple seconds here and there when necessary but I never engaged her again. Her comments to my brother in law were still insulting but he stood up for himself which I'm glad of. After she left I really thought the family would be disappointed in me for rising to the bait but they were proud. They said I did well at standing up to her without being mean. It was also surprising to everyone except my husband because they had never seen me argue before. It takes awhile for my anger to build to the point I actually yell at someone, rare.
The Issue I'm contending with:
I don't know how to feel or what to do about any of this.
Do I operate business as usual and keep being polite and absent from her company or should I try to form a better relationship with her? Should I be ashamed of being in the argument or did I do the right thing in not letting her walk all over me like normal? Was confronting her bad behavior in such a way constructive, neutral or will it cause worse problems? I still dislike her but I don't have any real malice toward her, she's just a person I disagree with on most things, is it worth it to try and have a better relationship with her? Everyone in the family likes that I stood up to her behavior directly because no one else can (afraid my brother in law will distance himself from them). I see how it is nice for them to see someone be straightforward with her but I didn't want to yell. I don't want to be someone that approaches problem solving with yelling but I also don't regret anything I said or didn't say. I kept my head through all of it except for yelling my last sentence. I just don't really know what to accept, what to change, and what to feel. I mostly just feel confused and embarrassed.
Any help or sharing of experience would be appreciated.
I don't get along with my brother in law's girlfriend and I don't know how to go about future interactions, assuming they will get married someday.
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2021.10.19 03:26 Ripped_White_Duke PART 5 GANG FOREVER <3
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2021.10.19 03:26 UKNiecy Getting back into the game after a long time, glad to see it's still the same 😆
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2021.10.19 03:26 PoundInternational66 Best Diaper Deals – Week of 10/18
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